How to Love (or Leave) Your Avoidant Partner without Breaking Your Heart

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This short, to-the-point book will help you leave your avoidant partner, get over them, or learn to love them better without hurting yourself. 

My name is Mosab Alkhteb, and I'm the author ofone of the best books on dealing with toxic people.

After writing a few viral articles on Medium about my own experience with an avoidant partner, I wrote this practical ebook about avoidants (based on my 7-year relationship with an avoidant--whom I dearly love-- and my thorough research of the topic).

The book will help you:

• Understand your avoidant's confusing actions.
• Stop hurting when they push you away.
• Improve the relationship.
• Learn how to get over them.
• Or learn how to love them better.
• And much more.

The Pain!

The pain of being discarded and replaced by someone else. 

The pain of being pushed away again after being let in. 

The pain of being restless, thinking about them, and trying to make them open up and talk to you. 

The pain of never knowing what's on their mind and feeling powerless in the relationship. 

I know how it feels. And I wrote this book to help you heal, get rid of this pain, and take control over your mental well-being.

What You'll Learn:

✅ The psychology behind avoidant attachment and why your partner acts the way they do.

✅ Proven strategies to connect with avoidant partners without losing yourself.

✅ Red flags to watch for and when it's time to walk away.

✅ Tools to heal your heart and find emotional security—no matter the outcome.

This Book is for You If:

• You're in a relationship with someone who struggles to open up or commit.
• You've felt emotionally neglected and wonder if it's your fault.
• You want to improve communication and create a healthier, more secure bond.
• You're considering leaving but need clarity and closure.

I know what it feels like to be with an avoidant. All the uncertainty, rejection, jealousy, pain, defensiveness, being shut down, and the emotional rollercoaster. 

But don't take my word for it. Read what tens of readers say about my work and how it impacted their relationship.

What readers are saying

But wait, there's more!

This is the only book where you can ask the author questions and get personalized support.

As many of you asked, Mosab is offering coaching through WhatsApp. You will get 24/7 access to Mosab through WhatsApp. He'll work with you to help you (depending on your goal), and you can ask him any question.

You can measure your progress and have someone there for you whenever you need clarification or help figuring out what to do.